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Connecting the dots!

 A fews weeks ago at work,i had an issue with a co-worker. The staff was getting to close to me and getting in my bubble.At first when this started i gave him  the benefit of the doubt and only observed the situation. Then it was clear to me i need it to talk and i did! The staff appreciated my honesty and he have change his conduct.When i choose my next requirements for the tiger years one of them was to mentor him due he is struggling a lots but have the good quality for the job!Now i am in a mixed of feelings,my hearts say keep helping him and my mind say take your distance and do the minimum but yet this doesn’t sound right to me. Awhile ago i had same feelings while in Kungfu class ,i was partner up with a young teenager and i felt i will break her .She was struggling too with the technic so i let her practice more on me than me on her.I felt frustrated due we were keeping has much possible the same partner and worries that i will not progress. After i talked to sifu Ryba...

My mini IHC

 A few months back i tried to do IHC team with my kids.The first 2 months ,i didnt have to be behind them so much.Slowly it was a chore of everyone part ,so i stop pushing them.Recently my daughter told me oh mom i need to write those  numbers down !I was happy due i realize the seed was planted! So now , how can i help them ? One thing that will change is how i do record my own number.I have tendency to record them when i am not busy instead of doing them has i go .Perhaps if they see me they will be motivated.For the years of tiger i choose form to do with them on the weekend! During the week i am the mean mom and telling them if they want  5 min extra before bed time give me 20 sit up and push up or when they want the electronic device ext !!! I have lots idea to trade with them!! My kids have also teaching me and i can see how proud they are ! One thing this year have thought me is i waited to long to adress my own feelings and not making changes sooner when things fe...

Act if kindness

 Doing act of kindness can be easy but hard to recognize when is an simple act like holding a door to someone.We don’t necessary know the impact to the others .When i see people  doing , it i like to tell them so they can see they did something great! In Spruce Grove we have a locally store name Wilhauk Beef Jerky and they have been going full out with the kindness! They are doing the 12 days of Christmas giving .So many great story share on their website if you have time go read it! I am planning to bring a Christmas card to them and share with them what the IHC team do !!

General

 In the last month , i have learned a lots about my weaknesses and where i can easily fallen apart. I don’t always reassess where i am or doing .I just push through and think things will get better.When i choose my personal requirements it was base on what didn’t work from this year and even if the year didn’t start yet i am more confident about my success.So why i didnt think to make changes ? good question to myself. Same apply for my blogging why i didn’t read yet my old blog and see how i was progressing.My last thing is i miss so much in opportunities of learning due i always think that if i can be committed at 100 % i will take the spot of someone.